Getting Your Wife on the Love Boat Again – Communication is the Key in Marriage

If it has been ages since you’ve made love to your wife or if you are starting to notice a frightening distance growing between you and the woman you love, then now is the perfect time to take action and see what’s wrong with your marriage. Females are usually the ones more vocal about their feelings compared to men. But if your wife has not said anything about a problem then you might just have a serious dilemma on your hands.The best thing that you can possibly do is to talk it out with your wife. Ask her what’s wrong and what’s changed. Don’t be too pushy or you’ll end up with her turning her back on you. Give her time to talk, and if she does, listen. Just listen. If she pours out a list of your shortcomings, don’t go defensive on her. Just let her emotions and frustrations flow out. After that, tell her your intention of keeping your marriage. Be ready to acknowledge your shortcomings and make adjustments to work things out.Of course your chat is not the end. It is the beginning. You need to transform your words into actions. Try to bring back the passion you once had. And the most important thing is, don’t turn this into a one-time event. Marriage is a work in progress and it is up to you and your partner to make it work. Without your effort, it could turn into a dull, lifeless relationship that will eventually end up in divorce. Bring back those candlelight dinners, those surprise bouquets of flowers and everything that you used to do in the past.And finally, try your best to make your word your bond. If you made broken promises in the past, do your best not to make one again. Promises require trust and trust should always be preciously guarded in a marriage.So there you have it men. It may require a lot of effort and investment to restore your marriage. Remember, it is not a smooth sailing journey. The fact is it’s a long and bumpy ride, but a truly enjoyable one when it’s with the woman you love!